We went in and adopted Brendan. At first he was really scared about coming into our home, and we had to literally drag him into our home. We had trouble getting him to feel comfortable but now he has become the baby of the house. When we get home from work he hugs us (literally). He plays well with the baby, and loves to be cuddled. Our hearts broke when we divided him and his brother, but we are now seeing B's (his nickname for the baby to call him) personality and we love it! We are very happy with him and hopefully we will foster his brother soon!!